7. Why The Right Man Shows Up Right After You Open Up

What does it really cost to stay emotionally unavailable? In this episode, we unpack the time, energy, years, and self-worth lost by choosing unavailable men—and what becomes possible when you open your heart and choose differently.

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Welcome to the final episode of the Available for Love mini series. And we're ending with a moment of radical clarity. Let's talk about ROI, return on investment, and the cost of inaction of not doing this. Because while this series has been heart opening, I want to make sure that you leave not just inspired, but activated. You deserve to know what this work actually gives you, what it costs to stay the same, and why the open heart blueprint is an investment with returns that ripple through every area of your life. The ROI of rewiring. Let's be real. Love affects everything. When you're emotionally available, you attract healthier, more secure partners. You stop wasting time and energy on relationships that drain you. You stop waste. I'm sorry, your standards rise. And so do the quality of people who meet them. And your body and your brain feel calm, confident, and magnetic. That emotional energy is priceless because it doesn't just affect your dating life, it affects your career, your friendships, your body, your boundaries, your joy. And the investment you make in rewiring your subconscious pays you back daily in peace, clarity, and deeply satisfying love. Let's talk about the cost of doing nothing. You listened to this, this is good to know. You got some cool information. Now you know how your subconscious works. What's the cost of just listening to this and not doing anything? Well, first, I want to flip it for you. What does it cost to not do this work? It costs another six months with the same type of man, another year confusing anxiety for attraction, another cycle of almost situationships or why didn't he choose me? Another moment of shrinking your voice, overthinking your texts, or pretending you don't care. But most of all, it costs you time. Time you could have spent loving and being loved, time you could have spent in a relationship that actually adds to your life, time you could have used building a love story that reflects your worth. Here's the scarier part of not doing this work. The longer you go not doing this work, and the more you keep on trying to talk yourself into choosing better men, being more feminine, being stronger, looking at the guys and being watching for narcissists and learning about your trauma and your attachment style and getting dating trip tricks. The longer you do that, the more you program your subconscious in being in that. The more you do that, the more you're telling your subconscious, men are bad. Look at these are the kind of men we date, unavailable men. You're constantly reprogramming your subconscious to keep on attracting that same kind of man until you stop that, rewire it, upgrade it, and then you only date good men, and then you're reprogramming your subconscious. I date good men, I date good men, good men are amazing. They're so, so great. I need you to look at your subconscious as a loyal assistant that is your operations manager, too. She's she's not there to judge you. She just says, What do you want me to do? She's there with the notepad and she's asking, tell me what to do, and I'm gonna give it to you. And whatever you tell her, whatever you think, whatever you hear, whatever you see in your environment is what you're telling her to bring more of. Most of us don't understand that our reality is creating more of our reality. What you see creates more of what you'll see in the future. What you think about creates more of what you'll think about in the future. You're constantly programming yourself for your future. This is why a lot of people have lives that feel like Groundhog Day. They wake up and it's like it's the same day over and over and over because you do the same things over and over and over. So you keep on getting the same results over and over and over. You need, you need to do things differently. Believe you're worthy of different so that you can get better results, so that your subconscious mind only gets more powerful, believes even more that you deserve great love. So that every time you drink you date a great guy, meet a great man, say no to the bad guy, you're training your subconscious. Yep, we don't date those guys. Awesome. Yep, we don't date those guys. Amazing. That guy, this kind of see how he treats us? That's the kind of love we deserve. Awesome. When he does, when you meet someone that doesn't do it and see, we let go of those guys. Awesome. You're just reinforcing your subconscious to do this in such a strong way. But it needs that, it needs to clear up all the old stuff, all the subconscious fears that are there to get rid of them and reprogram it with the truth, with the with what you really want is to be open and feel safe with men. So the cost of not doing it is you're just gonna repeat the same life over and over and over and over. It's so frustrating. And I know you don't want that. I know you want love, you want connection. You've worked hard at creating a great life. You deserve to have a great relationship to match. This is your moment, not to push harder, not to wait for a sign, but to say yes to a new pattern, a new version of you, a new love. The open heart blueprint is open now, and every part of it is designed to make love feel safe, easy, and deeply fulfilling again. You are available for love. And now let's get love gets to be available for you. I'll see you inside.